I've been talking to my mum and a couple of close friends right from the start of my questioning. I'm pretty sure my mum thinks it's just a phase. She could be right but the more I think about it the more I'm sure. I think she'll be supportive no matter what.
Not ready to talk to many other people yet. I'm not used to having to edit my words.
Mon Feb 04, 2008 10:01 am
fAkE
Joined: 22 Jan 2008
Posts: 13
Location: MS
Hey, I kinda know how you feel. I told my mom that I was having crushes on girls and not guys when I was going through a tough time in my life. Now that things are doing much better she sorta acts like maybe I didn't know what I was talking about. I still feel the same way and even stronger actually that I am a lesbian. Every time I mention a guy's name she perks up like, "oh who is he, and is he cute?" I have never been in a serious relationship with either sex, so who am I to tell her that I will probably never end up with a guy? As for my friends, I only told one of them flat out how I felt, and we are both in the same boat because he is gay too, except he's told more people than I have. Yeah I've talked way more to strangers about my life than I have my own friends and family. Isn't the internet the greatest? lol _________________ "Everybody wants me to be what they want me to be
I'm not happy when I try to fake it"
Fri Feb 08, 2008 1:40 am
Guest
Yep. Gotta love the internet.
My mum came down today to visit me, with plans to have some "long" chats. I think by the time she got here though she was pretty accepting. She gave me the latest Time magazine which is an attraction edition or something. Apparently has a section on same-sex relationships that I should read. The science of it or something.
I've been going through a tough time too which I think makes her think it's more of a phase. She heeded warnings about what would happen to my reputation... what about when I want to have kids...
Anyway, I'm looking forward to exploring more
Fri Feb 08, 2008 12:15 pm
fAkE
Joined: 22 Jan 2008
Posts: 13
Location: MS
My mom hasn't brought up all that I told her in quite a while. Haha, but not long ago I caught her watching Imagine Me & You. I never told her I watch lesbian movies when no one else is around, but I'm sure she quickly picked up on it that I've seen that movie before. I wasn't gonna watch it with her and confirm this though. She had recorded it to our tv so she could finish watching it if she fell asleep. The next morning I looked to see if it was there, but she had already erased it. She said she didn't want my little sister to see it and then she added, "or you." I wondered what exactly she meant by that, however, I couldn't bring myself to ask. _________________ "Everybody wants me to be what they want me to be
I'm not happy when I try to fake it"
Sun Feb 10, 2008 2:12 am
jetblack
Joined: 31 Jan 2008
Posts: 14
Location: Melbourne
That's such a lovely movie. She's obviously comfortable with the idea of lesbian relationships, but probably doesn't want to "taint" you with that stuff.
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