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cale
Joined: 07 Jun 2007
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Coming out to my bf...
Afther only few weeks that i am here on Mels i come out in front of my bf and feel like ...cant describe .."easy''..
We have long..long seriously conversation and i think there will be more..but i have his support.
I want to tanx all nice ladies who help me to to figuring that i must make move...and I did it
hugs
cale
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Wed Jul 04, 2007 10:33 am |
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Dark prism
Joined: 10 Dec 2006
Posts: 865
Location: California Dreamin, baby. |
Congratulations, Cale!
I'm really glad you got a good response from him, and I'm glad you have come to realize more of who you are.
Good luck on your journey!
Dp
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Wed Jul 04, 2007 11:48 am |
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Eilidh
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Congratulations, cale!
I'm so proud of you! You are lucky your boyfriend supports you, too.
Good luck on the rest of your journey.
Hugs,
Eilidh
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Wed Jul 04, 2007 9:40 pm |
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Footprint
Joined: 24 May 2006
Posts: 478
Location: @ home around the globe |
Wow................. (((((((((((((((((((((((CALE))))))))))))))))))))))
I am sooooooooooooooooooo happy to hear that.....that is so wonderful you found the strength to come out to your bf. I saw that you felt very unhappy and trapped but now you sound so much more...FREE!!!! WONDERFUL!!!
CONGRATULATIONS, CALE!!!!!!!
A big hug,
Footsie
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Wed Jul 04, 2007 10:10 pm |
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realwoman
Joined: 05 Dec 2005
Posts: 1040
Location: under our tree in Africa |
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
Way to go girl, that is the first step to living in peace and honesty with yourself... and kudos to him too for giving you his support...
Keep us updated on your process and progress!!
Hugs,
~real
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Thu Jul 05, 2007 8:44 am |
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cale
Joined: 07 Jun 2007
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Tanx girls….I'd just like to say like, a massive thank you to everyone...thats gives me courage to come out and of course keep reading posts and learn.I have hard time in my ordinari life and still fell unhappy and so trapped but this is the most beautifully things that happened to me.I ask myself am i on the end or this is beginig of....new way of living.
My bf....yes he gives me support but i knowe him werry well...17 years..huh.We buy the house and ring,HHUUUHH To complicate.I havent answeres on some questions.He think that everithing of this was born from him sex fantazie.We have problem in our sex(me, not him,for me thats not in top 5,for him that top 1) and one day HE sugest to call some girl to join us....from that day i start to tolk with myself who i am acctualy?Now i knowe that everything start many many years ago... now i knowe why dont like to wear skirts..
I try to explane him that first time i must be alone with girl.And maybe afther that i will knowe more to tell what i feel...i am so afraid and little ‘lost in translation”.He scary me when come one day with stuped sex newpapper and sead “ lets call some girl”!!!
Oh i feel like i won a battle but war is still go on
I will tru to enjoy in my journey but must tell you that my driving licence isnt valid since march...lol ssshhh about that i will fix it...
But most important things is that i come out in front of me for first time...and feel FREE !Now my way of living has sence...if i only could jump at the sea and dive how I am HAPPY but instead of that i will go on large music festival EXIT and listen PENDULUM(my wedding party was on PENDULUM party in Belgrad 16 .12.06...hahaha and i am fan of them)What coincidence...they coming again and i can belive that i will cerebrate my coming out on Pendulum?(watch in tickets -6 days left)
I am so happy at the moment...
(((((((((((((((((((Dark prism, Eilidh, Footsihunter,Real))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Hugs to all
Cale
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Thu Jul 05, 2007 3:51 pm |
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Eilidh
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Joined: 09 Apr 2005
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cale,
Good for you! I am so proud of you; you have come such a long way! Be sure to keep us posted after you talk with your parents and brother.
(((Big hugs))),
Eilidh
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Tue Aug 07, 2007 2:32 pm |
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KatieLover
Joined: 20 Jun 2007
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Glad to hear that someone's experience was better than mine. Congrats and I wish nothing but luck.
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