Add me to the list of people that you probably didn't know here until now, but it is an honor to meet you.
You are in the midst of a life changing experience.
Enjoy your vacation. It is important to take time for yourself.
I am always around if you ever need to talk.
Sun Apr 18, 2010 11:16 am
DanceofSorrows
Joined: 29 Aug 2004
Posts: 2837
Jules,
Offering warm, safe hugs. I hope you find some renewing on your vacation~
Dance~
Tue Apr 20, 2010 6:32 pm
Jules
Joined: 22 Feb 2005
Posts: 904
Location: Home
Goddess bless all of you. Thank you so much for your kind thoughts... _________________ Never again
Thu Apr 22, 2010 10:01 pm
GreenEyedKiss Moderators
Joined: 22 Jun 2005
Posts: 682
Location: Barony of the Angels in the Kingdom of Caid.
Stoppin by just to give you another hug...can never have too many, ya know. Hope you had a great vacation. Give that brat of yours a big hug as well and tell him I luv and miss him. _________________ "I don't know what I'm doing, but I'm getting it done." ~ADM
"What we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others remains immortal"
Wed Jun 02, 2010 10:42 am
Jules
Joined: 22 Feb 2005
Posts: 904
Location: Home
I could use an Andi hug right about now...My little brat is now a 1/2 inch taller than me and about 150lbs...not so little anymore lol...
Mom...I love her but she's kinda driving me nuts. I think she forgets I'm a grown adult with kids of my own... _________________ Never again
Thu Jun 03, 2010 9:48 pm
GreenEyedKiss Moderators
Joined: 22 Jun 2005
Posts: 682
Location: Barony of the Angels in the Kingdom of Caid.
Dropping in for more Jules hugs...they never go out of fashion, and you are welcome to as many as you can hold on to. *grin* I hope mama is doing better and staying out of your hair from time to time.. I TOTALLY understand darlin. (oops...theres that word) *grin*
Your (not so) little toad caught me on FB a few days ago and chatted for a few...he seemed fixated on food..lol. Ive seen his recent pictures..so I KNOW you are feeding him ...and very well at that. LMAO. It was good to hear from the brat.
Miss and love you both.
~Andikins _________________ "I don't know what I'm doing, but I'm getting it done." ~ADM
"What we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others remains immortal"
Wed Jun 23, 2010 12:06 pm
Jules
Joined: 22 Feb 2005
Posts: 904
Location: Home
Andikins...
I'm always up for a few hugs, especially from you. Yeah, you should see him, he's taller than I am now, grown a couple inches in just a couple months and he's not even 12 yet.
Mom's hanging in there, holding her own with no changes recently. Think she's getting tired of going to chemo, can't say I blame her at all.
Hope all is well with you and daddy.... _________________ Never again
Wed Jun 23, 2010 10:47 pm
GreenEyedKiss Moderators
Joined: 22 Jun 2005
Posts: 682
Location: Barony of the Angels in the Kingdom of Caid.
Jules,
hang in there sweetheart...we're all here with you. *big hugs*
And as far as the spawn..what the hell are you feeding him..Miracle Grow?..lol _________________ "I don't know what I'm doing, but I'm getting it done." ~ADM
"What we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others remains immortal"
Fri Jun 25, 2010 9:10 am
Jules
Joined: 22 Feb 2005
Posts: 904
Location: Home
I'm hanging....I'm hanging...
The spawn....well I try only to feed him every other day but he eat as much as a grown man lol _________________ Never again
Fri Jun 25, 2010 11:38 pm
Sprout
Joined: 26 Aug 2005
Posts: 130
Location: Upstate NY
Jules,
I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom. (((((((Jules)))))) I know it is hard taking care of her but you are strong. There will be days of tears but also days of laughter...remember to cherish those snippets of amusement...for they are what will get you through on the rougher days.
We are all here for you, my friend.
May the Goddess watch over you, your Mom and the rest of your family.
Take care,
Sprout _________________ 51% Sweetheart, 49% Bitch...Don't Push It!
Mon Jun 28, 2010 6:19 am
Jules
Joined: 22 Feb 2005
Posts: 904
Location: Home
Thank you Sprout... _________________ Never again
Tue Jun 29, 2010 6:49 pm
Jules
Joined: 22 Feb 2005
Posts: 904
Location: Home
Well, here I am...The time has come and I expect my mom to move on from this life in a matter of days if not hours...I'm sitting by her side, counting her breaths...waiting.
I have to write her obituary...I should be doing that now but I find myself drawn back to this place of love and prayers that I have known for oh so long now.
So what do you say in a few words of a newspaper column about a woman who has influenced your entire being, good or bad, for most of your life? How do you sum up a persons life in a few inches of paper? It seems soooo...empty...meaningless...
This is so not fair...for Goddess sake she's only 60 years old...She would be 61 on May 5th and I'm only 34, I'm not supposed to be losing my mother...I still need her...
I'm asking for this...anyone who reads this, say a prayer for her to whatever higher power that you believe in...Pray that she suffer no more and goes peacefully to a higher plane...Remember this woman, unknown to you...
Goddess give my strength to help her, to help me...I'm so tired... _________________ Never again
There's no need to write your mother's obituary before she's gone. Settle into that place of love and prayers. Be with her. She'll feel you. I'm sure she senses your love for her. I can sense it from here.
Through all of this, we're here for you. Lean on us.
*hugging you tightly*
Blessed Be,
Eilidh
Mon Apr 25, 2011 1:24 am
Sprout
Joined: 26 Aug 2005
Posts: 130
Location: Upstate NY
Jules, my heart goes out to you and your family. It is okay to feel the way you do, it has been a very long journey for the both of you. I shall light a candle for you and ask the Goddess to wrap you all in her arms as this transition is made. Big (((((hugs))))) for you, my friend.
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